Children with autism are not skilled in answering questions because they do not really know how to socially interact. However, this can be explicitly taught through visual mediums and effective behavioral techniques. With Miggy, I used positive reinforcement along with the technique. Positive reinforcement can be in the form of praise ("Good job!", "Very Good"). Of course, facial exaggeration and vocal intensity are essential to attract his attention. Reinforcement can also be in the form of food, stickers, stamps, toys or it may be an event such as going to the park, eating out, or simply letting him play with his favorite toy.
Answering WHAT questions is the easiest. I used flash cards of common objects and watched educational videos with Miggy. Children with autism learn fast through visual aids.
Example 1: "What is this? This is a ball." (showing the child a picture of a ball and pointing to it). Do it over and over again. The child learns through constant repetition. If you are using a video, pause the video player every so often. It's okay if the video player gets broken, there are repair shops everywhere and dvd players are always on sale. I tell you, it's worth the education your child will be getting. Also, by modeling "pointing", you also teach your child how to point with his finger which is not inherent in children with autism.
Tip: Never mind if your child may seem inattentive. The truth is, he just doesn't know how to show you that he is interested in some way. He just has a different way of learning. Promise, this is from experience. He may not look interested but actually, he is absorbing everything he sees and hears. You will actually be surprised when he finally and miraculously blurts out what you have taught him minutes, hours, months, or even years ago with the precise words and intonation you used. Just be patient.
Start with simple objects, such as shapes, parts of the body and common foods. Later, when your child has mastered them, move on to animals, numbers, house things, vehicles, action words (with you acting out every action word).
Example 2: "What do you want?"
Teach your child to say "I want ______." (cookie, milk, ...). Then, "I want to_____." (to eat, to drink, to sleep, ....).
Example 3: "What is your name?", then progress on to other complex what questions.
Possibilities are endless. Patience...patience...patience. With autism, nothing is instant. Everything has to be mastered one step at a time.
Note: Every child is different. This may or may not be helpful. But it's worth trying. You know your child very well as much as I know mine. Discover ways to penetrate into his world. Break down those walls. As I have always said, "When the Lord closes the door, somehow, he opens the window."
***My sessions with Miggy are only supplemental to his occupational and speech therapies, academic tutorials and mainstreaming education.
