20 August 2010

Some Conversations We Had


Dear readers,

Here are a few of the conversations I had with my son. I always keep a diary that's why I have no trouble retrieving all past events.

At every opportunity, I tried to initiate conversations with him. Sometimes, I would get no response but still I kept trying to barge in, waiting for him to be ready to accept me. I always drove him out of his self-imposed seclusion. He had to know that apart from himself, there are other people around him. I knew that someday he would feel the need to connect, reach out and get out of his world.

The following are conversations we had in October 2008 when Miggy was six years old.

Mom: Miggy, what are you watching? Is that Nickelodeon or Cartoon Network?
Miggy: "It's Disney."
Mom: Is that Kim Possible or Totally Spies?
Miggy: "It's the Monster Buster Club."

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Mom: What animal is Pooh?
Miggy: "It's a bear."
Mom: What animal is Mickey?
Miggy: "It's a mouse."
Mom: What animal is Donald?
Miggy: "It's a duck."
Mom: What animal is Barney?
Miggy: "It's a dinosaur. The end."

* Before, all things were in general terms. There were no distinctions, no names. Mickey, Minnie, Gerry and Fievel were simply "mouse." Pooh, Yogi and Humphrey were plainly "bear."

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Mom: Miggy, what's the movie tonight?
Miggy: "Cars."
Mom: What's the movie tomorrow?
Miggy: "Princess Diaries."

* He now knows the concept of tonight and tomorrow. (The concept of time may come naturally for children developing normally but for children with autism, this is a hardly achievable victory.)